Staying motivated is a struggle — our drive is constantly assaulted by negative thoughts and anxiety about the future. Everyone faces doubt and depression. What separates the highly successful is the ability to keep moving forward.

There is no simple solution for a lack of motivation. Even after beating it, the problem reappears at the first sign of failure. The key is understanding your thoughts and how they drive your emotions. By learning how to nurture motivating thoughts, neutralize negative ones, and focus on the task at hand, you can pull yourself out of a slump before it gains momentum.

Reasons We Lose Motivation

There are 3 primary reasons we lose motivation.

1. Lack of confidence – If you don’t believe you can succeed, what’s the point in trying?
2. Lack of focus – If you don’t know what you want, do you really want anything?
3. Lack of direction – If you don’t know what to do, how can you be motivated to do it?

How to Boost Confidence

The first motivation killer is a lack of confidence. When this happens to me, it’s usually because I’m focusing entirely on what I want and neglecting what I already have. When you only think about what you want, your mind creates explanations for why you aren’t getting it. This creates negative thoughts. Past failures, bad breaks, and personal weaknesses dominate your mind. You become jealous of your competitors and start making excuses for why you can’t succeed. In this state, you tend to make a bad impression, assume the worst about others, and lose self confidence.

The way to get out of this thought pattern is to focus on gratitude. Set aside time to focus on everything positive in your life. Make a mental list of your strengths, past successes, and current advantages. We tend to take our strengths for granted and dwell on our failures. By making an effort to feel grateful, you’ll realize how competent and successful you already are. This will rejuvenate your confidence and get you motivated to build on your current success.

It might sound strange that repeating things you already know can improve your mindset, but it’s amazingly effective. The mind distorts reality to confirm what it wants to believe. The more negatively you think, the more examples your mind will discover to confirm that belief. When you truly believe that you deserve success, your mind will generate ways to achieve it. The best way to bring success to yourself is to genuinely desire to create value for the rest of the world.

Developing Tangible Focus

The second motivation killer is a lack of focus. How often do you focus on what you don’t want, rather than on a concrete goal? We normally think in terms of fear. I’m afraid of being poor. I’m afraid no one will respect me. I’m afraid of being alone. The problem with this type of thinking is that fear alone isn’t actionable. Instead of doing something about our fear, it feeds on itself and drains our motivation.

If you’re caught up in fear based thinking, the first step is focusing that energy on a well defined goal. By defining a goal, you automatically define a set of actions. If you have a fear of poverty, create a plan to increase your income. It could be going back to school, obtaining a higher paying job, or developing a profitable website. The key is moving from an intangible desire to concrete, measurable steps.

By focusing your mind on a positive goal instead of an ambiguous fear, you put your brain to work. It instantly begins devising a plan for success. Instead of worrying about the future you start to do something about it. This is the first step in motivating yourself to take action. When know what you want, you become motivated to take action.

Developing Direction

The final piece in the motivational puzzle is direction. If focus means having an ultimate goal, direction is having a day-to-day strategy to achieve it. A lack of direction kills motivation because without an obvious next action we succumb to procrastination. An example of this is a person who wants to have a popular blog, but who spends more time reading posts about blogging than actually writing articles.

The key to finding direction is identifying the activities that lead to success. For every goal, there are activities that pay off and those that don’t. Make a list of all your activities and arrange them based on results. Then make a make an action plan that focuses on the activities that lead to big returns. To continue the example from above, a blogger’s list would look something like this:

1. Write content
2. Research relevant topics
3. Network with other bloggers
4. Optimize design and ad placements
5. Answer comments and email
6. Read other blogs

Keeping track of your most important tasks will direct your energy towards success. Without a constant reminder, it’s easy to waste entire days on filler activities like reading RSS feeds, email, and random web surfing.

When my motivation starts to wane, I regain direction by creating a plan that contains two positive actions. The first one should be a small task you’ve been meaning to do, while the second should be a long-term goal. I immediately do the smaller task. This creates positive momentum. After that I take the first step towards achieving the long-term goal. Doing this periodically is great for getting out of a slump, creating positive reinforcement, and getting long-term plans moving.

It’s inevitable that you’ll encounter periods of low energy, bad luck, and even the occasional failure. If you don’t discipline your mind, these minor speed bumps can turn into mental monsters. By being on guard against the top 3 motivation killers you can preserve your motivation and propel yourself to success.

Source: http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/how-to-motivate-yourself/

Here's the video for ROD 09. Quite a number of pictures were repeated. Sorry! I didn't realise it :x

We can make it. Gold/Silver/Bronze/COP, we'll all get it together as a band.

When its our turn to leave the band, what we'll have in our mind is just memories.

The fun time, the tears, the sweat, complains, sunburn, we'll never get it back when we leave the band.

Although its tiring, we're creating memories.

Memories that are created at this point of our lives are the purest.

The kind of friendship we have, is also the purest.

When we grow up and step into the society, we can never find this kind of friendship again.

So treasure the time we have now.

For the sec 1s, it will be your turn to lead the band for outdoor competition.

You can have another round of all these.

But what is different is you're leading the band next time, without your seniors to guide you anymore.

Treasure the time that you're having your seniors standing on the field with you.

Now, you're being motivated.

The next time, you'll be motivating others.

So don't give up. Till the end of the day, what we're doing now is just a small part of our lives that will always be kept in our hearts and be told to others when its their turn to go through this.

Tomorrow Reporting time 8.45. Attire is BAND-T and PE-SHORT. COMPULSARY to bring 1.5 FULL with plain water, formation chart, pencil, money for lunch. Optional for cap, towel, sunblock. 1 more week to go! plz get your band mates BACK!! to enjoy the fun with us.. encourage them to come.. Band members!! try to memorize your score while you are playing n try to memorize your step while you at the field marching OTEY!!! REMEMBER THE ADVISE! after the games, the major advise the member something so try to reflect back n give your best tomorrow otey!! have a gd rest n drink plenty of water.. n pray tat tomorrow will be a gd weather.. meaning tat the sun will not so hot n it will not rain..okey? i mean otey?!! hahax!! ggive ur very best tomorrow n now, meanning after you read this, try to recall your step.. not sure ask your sl so tat tmr, we will not get punish! buh bye see you guys tomorrow with alotz of energy!!
tats all from ur ddm, hamirul hahax!!!

NO BAND PRAC TMR! :D REST WELL PEOPLLEEEEEEEE!

SEE THOSE THAT WILL BE BACK FOR SECTIONALS!! This 10 days. Get over it! And we'll see each other again next year. Everyone is tired, but I know everyone can do it!! :D:D RIGHT?!

Hiiiiiiii everybodyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy~ Today is the third dayyyyyyy! KEEP ON GOINGGGGG! :D :D NEVER GIVE UP!

Tomorrow band prac 8.45pm report. Attire is band t and pe shorts.

Bring 1.5 water bottle filled with plain water (COMPULSORY), towel, cap, sunblock.
Also, remember to bring your formation chart, pencil, highlighter(if you need).

Good job everybody! We finish the formation today! Wow, 3 days! Thanks to the "ghosts" for helping ^.^ And I suggest bringing towel, cap and applying sunblock lotion. Cos this 2 days, the sun hor, is really,,, tsk.

Ok, so tmr morning we do formation. Then after lunch GAMES all the way! Long hours of game. 0.0

And remember to buy gifts less than $5 for the early Christmas gift exchange next friday! That will be our last prac this year. Then we'll see each other again next year. 2010.

Ok, a short post. Rest well. Drink more :) Good night!

Everyone worked hard TODAY!! So 2night drink more, eat more, sleep well. And be back for tmr ! :) Tmr reporting time 8.45 in your PE ATTIRE.. appearance will be CHECK! wash what you wear today tonight! tmr MUST bring 1.5 bottle fill with plain water.. It also will be check!.. optional: cap, sunblock, towel.. Rest Well People :) ...JIA YOU... (copyright from cheryl, edited by hamirul) HAHAX!! remember the game called spider web... no matter how n who are you, there is a way that you can pass through because it's all in the mindd!!! remember abt the first game in band room abt what are you thinking off!! The purpose of the game is don't anyhow guess.. whatever you do, listen to the instruction first.. not clear, ask! To Band member, if you don't know anything or not sure abt what are you doing, ask your section leader.. n wad if the section leader also not sure.. ask the MAJORS.. wad if majors not sure? ask the ALUMNI.. wad if alumni not sure? then ask the CONDUCTORS!! kae2.. Jian Jun says that the SPFMB almost reaching to his limit today.. so keep it up band!! just now i lyk the part where we play BOOM BOOM hahax!!! although tis few days will be tired, we the majors want you guys to have FUNN!! but your fun cannot be overboard.. tmr we will have more activities... band member!, the majors need your helpp!! n that is to encourage your fellow friend that for so long nvr come for band to come n join the fun n bond together with us..JIA YOU SPFMB!! WE ROXX HAHAX!! from ur DDM deputy drum major! hopefully you guys know me hahahaha.. bye tc all have fun yaww!!